Thursday, 30 August 2018

Prep For Public OUTting

What must a sissy do:

 to walk out into a public BDSM event that includes sissy kinks? As a sissy, to be supportive for others who enjoy using and dominating sub-male sissy bois? What minimum steps would be expected, even for sissy's who aren't pretty lookers like she-males, chicks with dicks, or other glorified emasculated sub-males?


1 - MAKE SURE there is no doubt what you portray
 -a- pink everything, blush, lipstick, nailpolish, panties, etc.
 -b- d-ring collar
 -c- cb6000s (s - is for small) - chastity belt, locked.
 -d- high heels
 -e- provide easy access to prostate, clean & prelube
 -f- shave - legs, face, arms, groin, ass

2 - Look your best
 -a- good nights sleep (9 hrs in bed no playing)
 -b- good breakfast - no fats, high energy,
 -c- make sure your clothes are spotless n well fitting
 -d- wear proper undergarments for added support (binders, gaffs, and girdles can be helpful)

3 - Make yourself both approachable and easily dismissed
 -a- hands at sides or behind back
 -b- have contact cards easily available, but not upsetting (dont hide in bra)
 -c- try to smile, and not to say no
 -d- keep answers short and helpful

4 - Do NOT make assumptions
 - if you don't know an answer, apologize & tell them you don't understand,
 - if you know an answer, offer as a suggested answer, do not assume it's the only way
 - if they look dominant and seem to want you, do not start begging, but peackocking, let them know you are ready to preform. Be approachable, but allow them to come to you, more importantly, allow them to easily step away without having to listen to your sniveling sob story.
 - do not lie, answer what you can, but make sure their interests are answered, do not drone on about yourself.

Remember, this is for others to learn about sissy's like you, so they will ask questions, be prepared to listen to what they ask, and not just talk about who you are.

Please let me know what I'm missing, I gotta get ready for sunday! -shelli_k18

Wednesday, 30 May 2018

Mysterymeat3 Translations: [Hanamaki Kaeru] Safe Words (Otokonoko Friends) [E...

Mysterymeat3 Translations: [Hanamaki Kaeru] Safe Words (Otokonoko Friends) [E...: Nothing wrong with wanting to tie your girly roommate up and use his ass as a dick holster. ExH Mega



Nothing wrong with wanting your room-mate to do this to you?

Monday, 15 May 2017

Ms Neta's Domain: 11 Questions for submissive males

Ms Neta's Domain: 11 Questions for submissive males:

1. How old were you when you first realized that you wanted to be sexually dominated by a woman?

My first sexual exp. was with another guys gf, he was away and she asked me to do many kinky things, but if i slept over it was on the couch, I was dominated happily...

2. Would you say that the desire to be sexually dominated by a woman has grown stronger or weaker as you have grown older?

ebbed up n down, i want my rights and fought for them, but wanted more kink and sought out dominant women too.not just women...

3. Can you recall any experiences from childhood that you would classify as female domination (of you)?
I always put ladies on pedestals, so always did what was asked in many situations, took grade school jobs 'cause of girls, played hooky to listen to them gossip about bf's they had to put up with..  Step mom wanted my father, not us, and it reflected in her connection to us.  Grandma was the Matriarch in our family.

4. Can you recall having submissive feelings toward women when you were growing up?
wanting to please them tho not understanding why. but same with some men.


5. Were you affected (as a young man) by any main stream movies that had female domination themes or scenes in them?
not sure.. i will think on this.

Lisbeth visita a Bjurman with tazer --- The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo -- i wasnt so young
in "lolita" she sexually blackmails him, thhough some debate on who's really in control.. - again not so young when i first saw it
Misery - i found myself wondering what I'd do in his broken shoes


Fatal Attraction (1987)
Hard Candy -2005 -- the castration scene I definitely was engrossed.
Heathers 1988-- definitly sadistic fun
Exit to Eden (1994) - luv'd the show for many reasons...

now i wanna watch:
R100 (2013)
The Graduate (1967)
Heavenly Creatures (1994)

6. Have you ever confessed to your family about your desires to be dominated by a woman?

no, god no..

7. What parts of yourself would you be willing to surrender over to a domme (assuming a committed relationship)? Your sex life? Your personal life? Your finances? Your free time? Every area of yourself?
already have, for 7 years, all but sex, i still masturbate, but currently in chastity. cb6000s (s is for small) when i'm reading porn in main room.

8. What area of yourself are you least likely to surrender over to her?
unsure, i'm pretty needy right now..
9. What are your feelings about Female Supremacy?

there is a big difference between my hungers, reality, and what my gf can provide.
10. Does being humiliated by female, including being belittled, degraded, and verbally abused appeal to you?
yes, on ex used my bedroom with her married boyfriend 8 weeks before she left me for him.. i was pressured out of that relationship as it got more public.

11. Would you endure being denied sexual orgasms for long periods of time?
unsure, i'm pretty needy right now..   have thought of it, about castration and chemical -depoprova.. etc.
I wear the chastity belt to deny myself release for 3 hrs a day. so i can get my email done without fapping.

Thanks for posting these questions Ms Neta at:

Sunday, 11 May 2014

Virginal Posting

Not all men are created equal, some are born as women, some want to become women, some are gay, bisexual, or transsexual, or whatever else the found out about themselves, and yes, some are straight. But what defines me as a man? I was born male and haven't been altered. But I have long hair in a society that often mistakes me for a women because of it. Same with the long nails.  But that's just looks. I want to be held, to be cared for, and to submit to a strong dominant will. I have my own desires, and perchance to fight authority. 

I will not put up with someone who is obviously in need of correction. But I'm in awe of men who have found themselves, who can treat me with their confidence and their expectations.

I'm high maintenance, emotional, and luv to test limits, and in my book those are not masculine traits. I have a vintage view of submissive femininity, and aspire towards that end, but I am not, nor really wish to be, 100% woman, I am 100% me. and I'll assume you don't know me.

Kisses,
Shelli.